Because Of Her
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So I'm sitting here - happy 4:20, world - and wondering why the hell I only lose my words when it matters.Heart. Soul. Mind. Body. I know where to find you, aye... behind every breath and every thought and gods, I am on the edge of laughter... something I couldn't avoid and couldn't deny and couldn't resist and it ended up wounding us both. Distance. Time. I'm still here. *shakes her head, dances into music, letting it soothe her slightly, calming* Sound is a drug, these days. I still remember listening to "Black Hole Sun" and wondering why more people didn't seem to hear the way I did. *shrugs* Slight mental detour... and like most of them, there's memories there that I will never let go of, they matter too much. ...forgotten? Gods, girl, I've got enough bad poetry to nearly fill a hard drive. I spent nearly every night up, awake, wishing that I dared to walk down the road. I did, often, snuck out with a notebook or a pack of cigarettes or just myself and what felt like a broken heart, pacing through a sleeping-dead town and praying to gods-know-what that somehow I'd see you. Everyone, EVERYONE, in my life has heard me talk more about you than about anyone else, past or present. You were in my dreams - still are, for that matter - as well as in my waking thoughts. Yes, I'm content with my life at the moment. It's something I can survive with, it's got so many good points. I've a roof over my head, food in my stomach, internet access, friends, family... gods, and I'm still sitting here with damp cheeks and a knot in my throat listening to Melissa Etheridge of all people, shaking... my life isn't perfect, nobody's life is perfect. I... *curls up, staring at the screen for a disturbingly long time, eyes dark, silent*
...I refuse to give up anything that matters to me. What in the universe could've made you think that you didn't? How often am I going to find myself in tears, struggling to put into words even a fraction of what I'm feeling?
...and no, before you start down that road, don't you DARE take that and go off on another guilt trip with it. These tears at least are my own, my mind and my heart. Not mislead. Not confused. My choice, my decision... and I have decided again and again and always that you are WORTH crying over, worth worrying about, worth dreaming of, worth caring for, worth... heh, worth me. *wry grin* Considering my own self-image some days that might not mean as much as it should, but take it as you will. aching, longing, needing, wanting they�re all just words nothing I can say will make you understand praying, hoping, dreaming, wishing they�re all just thoughts nothing I can think will make it happen again craving, thirsting, trying, pleading they�re all just games nothing I can do will make you understand crying, hurting, missing, giving they�re all just me nothing I can be will make it happen again
I could drown in you, some days.
*shakes her head* ...no. One thing you're right about - 24/7 exposure would, at least as things stand, be awkward. Committment... funny to say this considering how much time and emotion we both seem to have committed to this ...committment isn't the goal, despite all the self-help books. I keep reading, more and more... this is all tumbling together in my head and perhaps someday I'll be able to respond more coherantly, but for now all I can do is type as I read, breathless and hopeful and fearful and gods, so confused. Good gods, I've been bi for HOW f'ing long? When I moved into Portland, it was to live with a femme that I'd been hella attracted to in addition to being friends with. I had crushes on girls, not boys. That... all of it... yes. I want. I wish. I dream. I hope. But if there's no room or no hope I'd fight tooth and nail just for conversation, walking through downtown at night, reading, talking, existing. Knowing you're there. Other peoples' opinion. *snickers* As I've said, I will NOT give up the things that matter. Patience can go screw itself, community and ethics are pretty words they try to make you memorize in school, and there is not a soul on this planet who can tell my heart what to feel. *shakes her head* No one. Nothing. You matter. Let it out Take it in Don't know where To begin All I know is within my soul All I feel I believe is real And all that I want is you
I see you in my dreams at night You're alone And afraid I wish that you could hear me now Feel the fire That we made And I don't care for lies And I don't care for truth Angel, all I care about is you Let it out Take it in Think of me As a friend All I know is within my soul All I feel I believe is real And all that I want is you I feel you in my arms at night Then I wake You're not there I wish that you were with me now But you're not Do you care? And I don't care 'bout lies And I don't care 'bout truth Angel, all I care about is you Always and forever That's a long, long time to stay Apart from you, my angel... But you can have it your way Let it out Take it in See what we Could have been All I know is within my soul All I feel I believe is real And all that I want is you Yeah, all I've ever wanted All I've ever needed All that I want is you. Old, and old, and old... written back when I still had my first keyboard, sung to myself late at night, screamed once to the stars above a lookout point, everything I felt crammed into a few verses and a night of... desperation might be the right word.
More - I might as well post these, there's nothing else to say that I've words for and although these are still the hesitant efforts of a teen-ager who has barely started to live, still they hold at least a part of what set me to aching night after night. i have no dreams that sing of fire that do not also sing of ice and it takes passion and desire to stir the dreams behind these eyes
there is no love without a lover no hope, no peace, no rest until you find the one who's like no other and from her fountain drink your fill i sing of days lit by the bright sun and nights illuminated well by blazing neon and by streetlights that light the road that leads to hell there is no faith without a partner no dreams, no fantasies or lust unless the one you love is truthful there is no life where there's no trust Trust. There's a damned short list of people I would even begin to trust... most of them, oddly enough, have hurt me pretty badly at one point or another, points where they wouldn't have been able to hurt me if I didn't trust them. And still they hold fragments of me, still I trust, believing in them. Yes, you're on that list. Did you ever think otherwise?
and you call the flame and you call my name i can feel it strong in the air around you
fire burns my hands as i hold them out to you and you turn them away with a curse and a kiss to strike the spark for the flames that kill me slowly as you watch and laugh the fire burns my body sharp pains that i can resist but not for long and when i cry again and when you laugh again i discover that the things that hurt are not from the fire rather they are from you and i accept them because you give them so i am burned because i love only you always you your fire dances in me hypnotizing me from the inside out regarding me hotly as i wait with the fire for a command from you neither i nor the fire realizing that what you ask is for both to die in your service and when we do know and understand when we open our eyes we will accept because you command it i regard you as the fire you control the pain you give the tears you weep the words you speak you do not really understand how much of you i have learned in the darkness of the room where i lay at your feet and dreamed of you and of the flames you have called into being as my intentions fall and i hear you call i close my eyes waiting for you to call my spirit out into your service forever and ever again and the lighting crashes - - - - - Whispersoft... Featherlight... I hear your voice and spin around The world is turning And you�re nowhere in sight... Winterwind... Seastorms... Every breath of air chills me The night is howling You�re right beside me... Moonlight... Werelight... The universe is burning Pale foxfire glow Illuminates your form... Bittersweet... Razorsharp... I remember you and look The soul remembers And now you cloud my mind... You fill my mind... This entry is long. Funny, that some of the longest entries I've written recently are what might as well have been emails, letters, prayers whispered into the wind... all of this is inside me and has been for years, and you thought I left you? Gods... the nights I spent convinced that you had left ME, that somehow you were doing fine and that my nightmares and pain and confusion, it was at least something you'd escaped... that the scars both in mind and body were my problem, that you at least were safe...
...it is not a habit, it is cool, I feel alive, I feel... One last thing. One last spray of words, blank verse, and my assurance that at least one thing I do understand: imagine waking up to discover that you are not alone a shadow follows you sentient aware a shadow with a voice words, speech there is a hollow place carved out from your heart and your head it is here that your shadow begins to grow filling all the emptiness flowing into you imagine waking up to feel this second soul knowing it as well as you know yourself hearing its voice each time you speak your thoughts its thoughts blending imagine waking up and realizing you are the shadow...
It's 5:11, nearly an hour of writing, thinking, remembering. Time enough to think of all the hurts, the problems, the reasons to just forget this... and time enough to laugh at them all. I am here, always. I'd thought somehow that you would have held on... but now, no waiting, no hesitation. This time, I will not let you go.
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