I have a bloody LOT of the things.

Some of 'em are good... they are fun when I'm getting laid, they are useful memory-joggers, or they are just amusing and cute sorts of things.

Some of them, though, are buttons that I do NOT want pushed unless a) you know what you're doing, b) you know WHY you're doing it, and c) you know I'm ok with it. And even then, think twice.

I'm writing down some of these because it's been brought to my attention that I am really not very open about them... which leads to misunderstandings if and when one of those buttons is pushed accidentally. Bear in mind, if you read this and try to use these triggers in ways I find uncomfortable or upsetting, you will quickly be denied any chance to use them... or talk with me... I don't take kindly to having my buttons pushed by the wrong people or in the wrong ways. It REALLY bothers me.

But yeah. That's why I am listing these. No complicated explanations... this is just a 'do not do' list. *shrugs*

My throat - leave it the HELL alone unless you are giving me a back/shoulders/neck massage, and then make sure you keep your motions to the BACK of my neck and VERY massage-like.

My breasts - damned sensitive, damned private, Do Not Touch.

My eyes - if you cover them, expect me to go limp briefly... then kill you. Slowly. And quite painfully.

My wrists - Hold too tightly or for too long and I WILL go postal on your ass.

And just so you know... if you EVER call me Kajira without knowing what the name means, why I wore it, and why it might bother me, AND meaning well by it... yeah. *slight smile* I'll have your guts for garters.

*shrugs*

I'm still in that oddly violent mood. It doesn't seem to be going away. A few things... haven't helped it. DEFINITELY haven't helped it. *shrugs again* I'll cope.

Unfortunately for the world, 'coping' when I feel like this tends to involve bloodshed or at least serious bruises.