...and people wonder why I hide in my room.

Incidentally, I'm still hung up on that whole 'fairness' thing. *twitch* If I can be snapped at by everyone just for walking out of my room, can I please snap back occasionally? As far as I can tell I'm not doing anything that other people don't do as well. Yah, I forgot the phone in my room... but so has everyone else. (And yes, I am now being VERY careful to take said phone back out.) No, people shouldn't be stunned if they open the door without a 'hello', a 'come right in', a 'what' or anything of the sort from us... if you knock on the door but don't wait for a response and just barge in, YES, the people in the room are justified in being snarky. Yes, I spilled a bit of soda when the bottle was first opened and was a LOT more fizzy than I'd been expecting... but a) I know other people have spilled drinks out there and keep drinking out there anyway, and b) I cleaned it up willingly and happily.

What bothers me about all this is that it doesn't seem to matter what I do or what I say... it keeps being taken as some sort of arguement or statement of blame or rudeness or whatever, and all I mean to say are the Words I Say. Any interpretation of tone... *shakes her head* ...nah. Why bother? At least right now people are making some attempt to TELL me what they think I did wrong.

...and for the record, no, I won't be lecturing Andrea again... but YES, I think lecturing a barely-18 pregnant girl on the fact that she damn near chain-smokes, particularly when she was a friend, is reasonable the first time I notice her doing so. *twitch* Yeah, she has her reasons for doing it and I won't/can't make her stop. Giving her my opinion on it ONCE? *shrugs* It's not like she didn't quite willingly give me hers.

Bah. Now I'm starting to get tense m'self... and I'm trying very hard not to do that, PMS or not. *stretches* I would prefer to be happy and cheerful. 's much more fun.